Anonymous asked: I've been with my girl for almos a year, and I was wondering if it would be cheating if I just got head from my ex? not fucking or a relationship though.

Well, yeah, that’s still cheating. I’m not judging you, but like I’ve said before, there’s a difference between being a player and being a cheater. If you want to get head or fuck other girls, then you can do all of that while you’re single. If you want to do all of that while having a girlfriend, then be upfront with her about it, and see if she’s the type to turn a blind eye to it. If she isn’t(and chances are she won’t be), but you still have a strong urge to be with other women, then ask yourself if you’re at the stage in your life where you can be in a monogamous relationship or not. 

~ C.J. Johnson